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Obtaining a Mortgage: 3 Steps to Improve Your Credit Score

19 Thursday Apr 2012

Posted by Mary Anne Walser, REALTOR in real estate

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Right after the mortgage meltdown, it was very difficult to obtain a mortgage.  It is still not especially easy, and I find that some buyers have credit scores that either prohibit them from getting a mortgage or make it difficult to get a good rate.

The first step to improving your credit score is to get a current copy of your credit report. There are three nationwide consumer credit reporting companies that provide reliable credit reports. Those companies are: Equifax- www.investigate.equifax.com, Experian – www.experian.com and TransUnion – www.transunion.com.  At AnnualCreditReport.com you can get a copy of your credit report from one of these companies absolutely free. To report false information that appears on your report you may contact the nationwide consumer credit reporting company that provided the credit report. The time it will take to correct your report depends on the specific error contained in your report, but no matter the length of time, getting your credit information corrected is your best and only option because your credit is at stake.

The second step to improving your credit score is to take control of your monthly debt. Your credit score reflects what you owed at the time of your last billing cycle and the amount of credit that you have available. People with the highest credit scores only use 10% of their total available credit each month. To maintain good credit you must keep your monthly debt under 25% and not utilize more than 25% of your available credit each month.

The third step to improving your credit score is to remember that “credit” cards don’t always benefit your credit. Paying off the balance on your credit card every month will not always improve your credit score. At the end of each billing cycle the full amount that you owe on that card is posted on your credit score, even if you paid your monthly charge. Once you have paid off the full balance on a credit card, do not cancel it. Canceling a credit card will lower your credit score, even if you have paid it off. Mortgage companies suggest that if you plan to purchase a home, you should not make any purchases with your credit card 3 to 6 months before you plan to secure financing for your new home. Instead, use cash or debit to pay for purchases during those months so you can enhance your credit worthiness.

Overall, your credit score is only a small part of your complete financial standing, but it is one of the most important because it proves your responsibility for paying off your debt. Don’t miss out on the historically low mortgage interest rates that are being offered. There’s no requirement for you to have outstanding income and a high down payment if you have good credit. Improving your credit score will give you an opportunity to take advantage of a low interest rate. Follow these 3 easy steps to improving your credit score and be on your way to owning a new home!

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GREAT EATS IN ATLANTA

23 Friday Mar 2012

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Well, I started to write a blog post about great out of the way places to eat inAtlanta. I love the hole in the wall places; after all, everyone knows about the big & trendy places already, don’t they?

But I had lunch with my good friend Amy Wallas Fox yesterday. She’s my go-to friend for information about anywhere and everywhere cool to eat inAtlanta, no matter what the size or location. And the best that I can do for you is to direct you to her blog – it’s the absolute best place I know of to find inside information on food inAtlanta. She’s introduced me to so many places! (My favorite thing to do is to pick her up for lunch – she works on Lenox near Buford Highway– and let HER pick the place). Yesterday we ate at C’om, the Vietnamese grill. Tremendous! We tried an avocado shake next door at Lee’s Bakery – also tremendous!

Do yourself a favor and subscribe to her blog – but HURRY! I’ve sold her home and she’s moving to Charlotte in a few months. Read up on her Atlanta blog entries and you will be on top of the cool, great places to eat in Atlanta!

You can find her here:

http://amyonfood.blogspot.com/ – tell her I sent you!!!

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Buying a Short Sale can be a Tall Order

09 Friday Mar 2012

Posted by Mary Anne Walser, REALTOR in real estate

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A short sale is usually anything but short.  Sort of like the attorney’s “legal brief” which is never brief, a short sale is very rarely “short”.  The term refers to the situation when the seller OWES more on the property than the property is worth, and is attempting to persuade the lender to take less than is owed on the property in full satisfaction of the loan.  You have probably heard the term “underwater” – a short sale seller is underwater on the house (has borrowed more against it than is supported by its current market value) and is trying to sell the home without having to cough up the difference at closing. 

A short sale can take MONTHS and MONTHS (although I HAVE had one approved in two weeks – that is very unusual).  The lender generally doesn’t WANT to take less than is owed, as you might imagine.  Therefore it’s somewhat of a fight, and if/when there are multiple lenders and lienholders (as there often are) it is often next to impossible to get them all to agree.  We agents sometimes say that it’s the THIRD short sale buyer who actually gets the house, meaning that most buyers who make an offer on a short sale get tired of waiting for the approval and just go on and buy something else.  Of course, the short sale may or may not EVER happen.  The seller may just stay and pay – or it may end up as a foreclosure.

Even when the short sale lender or lenders approve the short sale, they will sometimes reserve the right to disapprove the short sale at any time before closing – which poses another problem; it could fall through at the last minute.  In fact, you can be sitting at the closing table when the word comes that the lender has decided to withdraw approval and foreclose instead.

Other potential snafus are that the seller usually wants a release from any and all liability with respect to the loan, while the short sale lender(s) will often require that the seller sign a personal note back to the lender for the remainder owed.  Another problem I have seen is when the seller does not realize that they may be TAXED on the forgiveness of debt (why the seller’s agent did not bring up this issue to the seller prior to getting a contract is beyond me, but it happens).  The IRS considers forgiveness of debt taxable income, and the seller will be responsible for paying that tax.  A side note – if you are the seller, please consult your accountant on this one – because if it is your personal residence you are selling, the forgiveness may be excludable, much as GAIN from the sale is excludable if you have lived in the house as your main residence for two of the past five years.

In other words, short sales are a PAIN, but you CAN get a great deal.  It’s best to look for PREAPPROVED short sales where only one lender is involved.  Pre-approved means the lender has already agreed to accept a short pay-off, and these deals are much more likely to go through.  In any event, I usually counsel buyers to go ahead and make an offer on a short sale if that is the property that they really like, but the to KEEP LOOKING.  You can always terminate your short sale offer if you find something better in the interim. 

We agents are all ready for the day when regular sales again outnumber foreclosures and short sales, but I am also glad to see those sales moving through the system.  The quicker we turn over the troubled properties to buyers who can handle the payments, the faster the housing market will recover.

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WHAT I LEARNED FROM BUYING A HOME – STUFF

01 Wednesday Feb 2012

Posted by Mary Anne Walser, REALTOR in real estate

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So, I have sold hundreds of homes in my real estate career.  And each and every time I give my clients checklists of things to do.  But until I recently purchased another home (fifteen years after purchasing my first) I did not fully appreciate everything that must be done prior to move-in.  This first lesson can begin even before you find your dream home and get it under contract.

First, Goodwill is your friend.  Start putting aside items to take to Goodwill NOW.  A good rule of thumb is anything you have not used for two years – goes to Goodwill.  I am loathe to increase our landfill load, but I feel no qualms about giving to Goodwill, where I know the items will go to good use and the money to a great organization.  Start culling through your stuff now!  And while you are at it, start packing up off season clothes and other things you do not use on a regular basis.

While you are doing this – and this may be the most important piece of advice I give – mark each and every box with as much detail about the contents as you can muster.  Have thick masking tape you can write on handy for this purpose, particularly if some of the boxes you are using are from the grocery or liquor store and have no clear space for writing.  Label each box on the top and on two sides, so that no matter where or how you are storing things, a label can be visible.  For your box packing, you will want to have on hand a thick black marker, wide masking tape, scissors, a cutting knife, and clear box tape.

For boxes, many find the clear storage boxes from your local discount store to be a great help, particularly if you may be storing things even temporarily in a garage, carport or storage unit.  I love liquor boxes.  I do not drink.  But the boxes are substantial, and small – perfect for carting books, and the liquor store has a fresh and large supply every day.  Go to your local store (liquor or other) and ask when the best time to pick up boxes might be.  And of course you can always BUY boxes, but that always seems wasteful to me.

And be prepared for the emotional impact of this entire packing up process.  My husband keeps more “stuff” than I do.  But then, he has three children, now grown – but there is plenty of “stuff” that we want to keep for them, and for good reason.  So, you cannot rid yourself of everything that you do not use regularly when you are keeping things for others – and that’s just part of the process.

I must say, even with the many things we do not use and yet have kept for others, culling through what we have and ridding ourselves of so much “stuff” feels incredibly wonderful and freeing.  One of the best parts of moving is that feeling of freedom – of starting afresh.

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WHAT I LEARNED FROM BUYING A HOME – GETTING A MORTGAGE LOAN

20 Friday Jan 2012

Posted by Mary Anne Walser, REALTOR in real estate

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I vaguely recall getting a loan when I purchased my first home.  And what I remember is that it did not seem all that difficult, but that the closing was a nightmare.  The loan officer did not show up for closing, there were charges on the closing statement that hadn’t been revealed to me previously, and the loan officer was nowhere to be found.  As a result, the closing was much more arduous and took a lot longer than it should have.

And while I work with clients every day who are getting a loan to purchase their homes, most of my clients work with my favorite lender.  He makes the process appear seamless to me as a Realtor.  He is patient, explains everything carefully to them, and always answers the phone or returns calls promptly.  So in recent years I have been less aware of what getting a loan is really like.

So when I convinced my husband that buying another home was a great idea, I was not really sure exactly what to expect.  I called my favorite loan officer.  And even though he made the process as easy as possible for me – I had forgotten all the information you need to provide for the loan – recent pay stubs, W-2 statements, tax returns for the last few years.  You will need to get with your lender and fill out forms, provide the documents, and then provide more documents as issues come up.  For instance, my husband was divorced from his first wife, but continued to pay alimony for a period of time after the divorce.  The lending underwriter needed to see the divorce settlement to determine when those obligations ended.  Why, I am not really sure.  But that is how it goes in the lending world these days.  The best advice I can give is to get all your important tax, account and legal papers together and organized and have them ready.  Some documents you may not even know that you need until the very last minute, when the loan goes through final underwriting.  Luckily, although the call came for that divorce document at the last minute and while my husband was overseas, I was able to locate it quickly in his organized files.

So, lesson one – have all important papers ready and handy and make sure that you have filed your income taxes regularly, particularly for the most current year.  I already knew not to make any large purchases between applying for the loan and closing.  Lenders do not like to see large sums of money going OUT of your account(s) during that time.  Now, lots of buyers purchase appliances, furniture, that sort of thing – if it is a large purchase, just run it by your loan officer before you do it.

The other part of this lesson is something I already knew: HAVE A LOAN OFFICER WHO IS ACCESSIBLE, AVAILABLE, AND RETURNS YOUR PHONE CALLS PROMPTLY.  Loans are more difficult these days.  You want someone who can guide you through the process and make sure everything goes great at closing.  Have what I had the second time – a seamless, efficient closing with no surprises that was over in less than an hour.  Do not have a closing like my first one – and you can avoid that by finding the right lender.

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A REALTOR BUYS A HOUSE

12 Thursday Jan 2012

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I have been a real estate agent for almost a decade.  But until recent, I lived in the home I owned I purchased PRIOR to becoming an agent, back when the process was more mysterious to me than it is now.  In the past few years, it is no secret that home prices in Atlanta have tanked, crashed, bottomed out.  SO, I decided to take the advice I give my clients – buy a home NOW!  Interest rates are incredibly low, so are home prices – buying a home has never been more affordable and has never made more sense.

First I had to convince my husband that this was a good idea.  We love our home in a charming little neighborhood called ChanningValley, where the neighbors know one another, kids play in the quaint neighborhood park, and there are active garden and book clubs.  Our home is a ‘50s ranch that I renovated into a cute little cottage that is the perfect size for two people.  So why would we move?  Well, I told my husband, we can rent out our home in Channing Valley, make money every month from it – and use that money to leverage ourselves into a home that is even better for us.

Once I showed him what we could purchase in today’s market, and once we found an architect’s dream home – he was convinced.  And it has been the best process in the world for me.  I have a much clearer idea of EXACTLY what my clients go through in the home buying process.

First, there is the difficulty in deciding which neighborhood to live in.  I have a better idea of all the “neighborhoods” in Atlanta and their individual characteristics than my clients do, of course – unless you are a Realtor, you do not intimately know a large number of neighborhoods.  Part of my job is to help a client decide which neighborhood is best for them.  My husband and I knew this much: that we did not want to move more than five miles from his work.  (He works right across from the High Museum of Art).  Since as a Realtor my work is all over the metro area (as far North as Forsyth County, as far South as Peachtree City, as far East as Stone Mountain, and as far West as Douglasville), location was not as key to me.  My office is my car and it goes everywhere.

But even with that focus on my husband’s place of business, it was much more difficult to decide on a neighborhood than I imagined – there are so many that we love (Virginia Highland, Morningside, Ansley Park, Garden Hills… the list goes on, but all closer in).  And the number of available properties is staggering.  While with clients, I can generally know in very short order which home would be perfect for them by listening to their needs, wants, likes, dislikes, when it is a personal decision it is a lot more difficult.

This definitely helped me become more aware of my value in guiding clients in choosing a neighborhood.  A third party unbiased view is very helpful.  Ultimately, of course, it can be and must be the client’s choice, but a good Realtor familiar with the neighborhoods can be an invaluable asset.

What I learned from my own experience with this also, however, is that the “right” home might not be in your favorite neighborhood.  The home my husband and I ended up buying is farther out than we thought we’d be willing to move, and not in the “historical” intown neighborhoods that we so love.  We initially thought we had to live inAnsleyPark.  But when we got down to considering practicalities and our budget, a larger home a little farther out on a larger lot made a lot more sense for our lifestyle.

So, keep your mind open!  But also keep in mind that you cannot look “everywhere”.  It’s very important to be limited in geographic scope.  Consider traffic patterns – if you work downtown, you probably don’t want to spend an hour and a half every day in traffic.  Look for something closer in.  But if your Realtor suggests a neighborhood you did not think of, consider it!  If the home you love is in a neighborhood you were not considering, consider it!  It may be the perfect neighborhood for you.

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The Most “Artistic” Home in Atlanta

13 Thursday Oct 2011

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All right, so it’s not a home anyone actually LIVES in, but it’s immediately recognizable.  This house sits on the grounds of the HighArt Museum.   The High Art Museum, of course, is one of Atlanta’s great treasures, and the sculpture is “House III” by Roy Lichtenstein (1997), the famous pop artist who also constructed such classics as Crying Girl (1964), seen here (and brought to life in the film Night at the Museum). 

House III looks like an ordinary home, but as you walk past it, and look at it, it appears to move as you move – sort of like the eyes in a portrait following a character in an old-time horror film.         I really ought to post a video, shouldn’t I?  Or maybe this will inspire you to go see for yourself.  It’s really quite amazing.  The house appears to undulate and move with you, and the optical illusion also has the perspective fooling your eye – like an Escher sketch.  The sculpture was completed in 1997, the same year that Lichtenstein died, so I presume that it was one of his last works (he died in September of that year).

Being a Realtor, I love that one of the major attractions one sees in the outdoor pavilion at the High is a *house*.  The piece has me reflect on the thought that many operate under the illusion that home never changes – when, in fact, whatever you call home is constantly in flux, and it is rarely how you remember it.   

I must also mention that the exhibit currently at the High, Picasso to Warhol, the Modern Masters, is AMAZING.  I had high expectations and it exceeded them all.  The exhibit runs through April of 2012, so you have plenty of time to see it (and marvel at the most artistic home in Atlanta on your way in).

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CHEAPER TO BUY THAN RENT

26 Monday Sep 2011

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I just placed an offer for a client who told me that he’ll be SAVING $450 a month by purchasing the condo we found for him.  He is actually SAVING money by purchasing rather than renting.  Really?  I asked him.  Does your calculation INCLUDE the monthly HOA (homeowner’s association) dues on the condo?  He assured me that it did – and that yes, he’ll save $450 a month.  Not to mention the money he’ll save on his income taxes.  Interest he pays on his mortgage is TAX DEDUCTIBLE, and in the early years of a mortgage, much of what you pay is interest rather than principal.  So he’ll see more savings add up when he files his income taxes with the I.R.S.

It’s unbelievable, isn’t it?  Why are so many people still renting?  My client assures me he’s going to spread the word to his neighbors in the apartment complex, and I hope to see more clients from there!  But why aren’t more people automatically following his lead, with interest rates as low as they are, and home prices bottoming out?  As long as my client holds on to his condo for a few years, chances are he’s making a heck of an investment – and saving money in the interim to boot!

One reason more renters aren’t purchasing, of course, is that many of them have been foreclosed upon or have had to short sale their properties (a short sale is when the seller sells the home for less than is owed on it, and the mortgage holder agrees to accept a reduced payoff).  If you’ve been through a foreclosure or short sale, you won’t be able to purchase a new home for some period of time.  (Typically, lenders tell me, a foreclosure will prevent you from purchasing for seven years, and short sale for at least three years, although these time periods can vary).  Then there’s another group of potential buyers who have relocated toAtlanta, but who cannot afford to buy a new home until their home in the former state sells.  And of course, it’s much harder to sell a home these days – you’re competing with all the foreclosures and short sales.

But if you haven’t had a foreclosure, short sale or bankruptcy recently, if you have steady employment and enough money for a down payment, it seems crazy NOT to buy.  The client in this example is buying a one bedroom condo in a great part of Buckhead for less than $50,000.  Just two years ago the same condo was selling for double that.  I have other clients who are looking at homes $200,000 and below – and we are finding LOTS of homes in that price range that they like.  They are having difficulty deciding upon which they like best.  Home prices are just incredibly affordable right now.

If you are currently renting, you owe it to yourself to explore whether or not purchasing a home makes sense for you.  Interest rates are again at record lows and who knows HOW LONG these low home prices will last – so please, call or email me or your other favorite Realtor – we’d love to help!

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Seller Financing in a Buyer’s Market

17 Wednesday Aug 2011

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It’s a buyer’s market in real estate, but the poor buyer may find it VERY difficult to get a loan. Banks are simply not lending the way that they used to. A savvy seller with financial wherewithal can turn the second fact into an advantage in this market by offering seller financing. The potential benefits for the seller is that they can often negotiate an interest rate that’s more favorable than it would be from other investments. They might also command a higher selling price because they are offering the added benefit of financing, since the buyer who chooses seller financing is presumably unable to qualify for a conventional mortgage loan. Seller financing may be the ONLY way that type of buyer can purchase a home. There could also be tax benefit if the transaction is structured as an installment sale, which allows the seller to spread out recognition of capital gain.

Of course, the big downside for the seller is the possibility that the buyer will default. After all, by definition the buyer is somewhat of a risk – for whatever reason, presumably subpar credit, a traditional mortgage lender was unwilling to lend to him or her; that is why the seller is financing the transaction in the first place.

Here are ways to help minimize the risk for the seller: always thoroughly investigate the buyer (this should go without saying). Get a credit report, but also a criminal background check. Make sure that the buyer is not presenting you with false identification (identity theft). Make sure that you get personal, professional, and credit references – and talk personally with them all.

Secure a large nonrefundable down payment, as much as you can negotiate. The down payment can go towards the buyer’s purchase at payoff, but should remain the property of the seller should the buyer default. The larger the down payment, the less the risk for the seller.

Structure the transaction carefully, providing creative enforcement remedies. Often in such transactions, foreclosure is the seller’s only option should the buyer default. Draft intermediate remedies to the extent possible – remedies for late payments, for instance, might have a strict penalty to discourage tardiness.

Seller financing is not for every seller – but those who can offer this additional benefit may find that the potential benefits outweigh the risks.

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A House Divided – Selling Your Home While Getting a Divorce

10 Wednesday Aug 2011

Posted by Mary Anne Walser, REALTOR in real estate

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It’s no secret that this real estate market is very difficult for sellers.   Home prices are lower than they’ve been since 1990, and prices are still falling.  Therefore, many homeowners are “holding on” – deciding not to sell in this strong buyer’s market.  Those who are selling generally fall into one of two categories: (1) those who have to sell (sellers who can no longer pay the mortgage or they are relocating a new city) or (2) those who want to move “up” and figure they’ll make up what they lose in selling their current home by getting a great deal on the move-up home.

And then there are divorcing couples.  Multiply the stress of divorce with the current economy and tough house-selling environment, and it adds up to a very difficult time.  Sometimes divorcing couples fall into category (1) – but oftentimes they don’t have to sell, but they want to sell in order to move on with their lives.  The house is often one of the largest, if not the largest, marital asset.  If one party decides to buy the other out, the party who is being bought out is getting short shrift – the current appraised value is certain to be low compared to what the home was worth before the 2008 housing crash – and also low compared to what the home WILL be worth when the housing market recovers.

In a relocation situation, Realtors often recommend that a seller consider renting out the home in lieu of selling, at least until the market improves.  Divorcing couples generally do not wish to explore that option, and of course it is often not in the divorcing couples’ best interest for the parties to continue to have to deal with one another in finding a tenant, maintaining the home, etc.    The divorcing party’s desire usually is to make a clean break and start a new life.  So, for divorcing couples who decide that they must sell together in order to fairly divide the marital housing asset, here are some thoughts and guidelines to make the process easier:

IF POSSIBLE, BOTH PARTIES SHOULD VACATE THE HOUSE.  Key to selling a home is making it as accessible as possible for agents and their buyers.  If your home cannot be shown, it won’t be sold.  If one or both parties are living there, it’s more difficult to show and since the two divorcing parties are often not speaking with one another, it makes it even harder to arrange showings.  It only makes sense that it is not a good idea for both parties to live in the house while it is being marketed and sold.  There is already enough stress in the relationship.

BEWARE THE “DIVORCE HOUSE” LOOK.  If only one member of the couple is living in the house, the home tends to look barren and sad with half the furniture gone. Agents can tell when it’s a divorce house, and buyers can too.  Since purchasing a home is often an emotional decision, a half-empty house is a big turnoff, even though much of the prejudice may be subliminal.  Buyers may not know WHY, they only know that the house feels sad, and they won’t want to buy it.  You are much better off selling a vacant house (totally vacant, cleaned, fresh paint) or one that has been staged nicely with furniture.   Another problem with one party remaining in the home is that it often causes disagreement between the divorcing parties as to whether the seller remaining in the home is “thwarting” the sale in any way.

IF ONE PARTY MUST STAY IN THE HOUSE, stage it.  It does not have to be “full” but it should look as if there has been time and effort put into making the house presentable for buyers.  In other words, no folding chairs and bridge tables in the dining room, and no blow up mattress serving as the bed.

CHOOSE A REAL ESTATE AGENT TOGETHER.  Both parties must trust and feel comfortable with the agent who is chosen.   Neither party should feel that the agent favors one seller over the other, communicates better with one seller over the other, or is otherwise prejudiced against one of the parties.  That said, we often represent couples when an agent on our team has been friends with one or both of them and it seems to work out fine as long as there is good communication between all three – the two sellers and the agent.  It often helps to have an agent who knows the parties, is empathetic, and fully understands the situation.  If there is any conflict or uneasy feelings during the course of the representation, be sure the let the agent know your feelings about this and give them a chance to rectify or adjust. 

COME UP WITH A PLAN OF COMMUNICATION.  We will often find that divorcing couples are not communicating well with each other.  This is not surprising, of course.  In that instance, having a plan whereby the agent communicates with both parties at once through email is often the key.  Otherwise, the agent has to choose “who to call first” and that can cause problems, UNLESS both sellers agree that the agent’s primary contact is with one particular seller.  If email is to be the primary source of communication, be sure that both sellers have ready, easy access to email and check it regularly.  Remember that DELAY – in responding to a request for a showing, or to an offer – can be deadly to a sale.  Buyers will move on quickly in this era of many, many homes on the market.

PRICE RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING.  Divorce always takes an emotional toll, regardless of the circumstance, so you want to limit the damage as much as possible.  Better to get the house sold that to have it sit on the market forever while the parties wait – and wait – and wait – to fully move on with their lives.  Time and time again we find that the longer a house stays on the market, the less the seller ultimately gets for it, so this would seem to be a no-brainer.  Price right from the beginning!  In this strong buyer’s market, that is likely to be less than you thought or hoped you would get for it, but mitigate the damage by pricing well from the start.  Believe me, ultimately it’s better – and more lucrative – that way for all parties.

Our team has helped many divorcing couples through the process of selling a home, and we’re happy to help you as well.  Please do not hesitate to contact us at mwalser@kw.com or 404-272-3527.

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